Are you drowning in a sea of expectations?


Did you follow all (or most) of the rules but aren’t sure you like where you’ve ended up?

Are you tired of feeling pissed off, overwhelmed and gaslit by the world in general?



Some days it feels easier to burn everything to the ground and start over.


I hear you, Sis.


But there's another way.

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Hi  there, I'm Jen and I'm a  Feminist Life Coach

I believe brave and badass women will change the world, but we have to get out of our own way first.  


I help women overcome self-doubt, bullshit expectations and internalized misogyny so we can get to the root of who you are and what you want.

What Fires You Up?

For real: What would you be reaching out to grab with both hands if you didn’t have to pay the bills, or take care of people, or give a flying fuck about what anyone thinks about you?

Maybe you want to be an artist. Or an activist. Or a CEO.

Or something you haven't figured out yet.


Maybe you left behind your dream a while back,

like a crying baby by the side of the highway as you motored off down the road of having to meet the expectations of other people (or the world in general).


Maybe you don't know exactly what it is.

But you still hear it crying in the middle of the night when you can’t sleep.

Are you tired?

Of apologizing or hiding or isolating

and trying to jettison the parts of you that don’t

fit into the suffocating mold of what you're supposed to be. 


Of thinking that if you could just be

nice and pretty and accomplished and perfect enough 

or if you could just actually learn to please all of the people all the time, 

you might be able to take a full breath.

Of hoping that if you do it just right it will be enough

to quiet that voice in the back of your mind.

The one that whispers that you’re not enough
that you just need to try harder
that things will be better as soon as X, Y or Z happens…

What if you could

Be unapologetically you.

Get to know and trust yourself so you can access your inner wisdom.

Gain confidence to express who you are and what you want.

Start pursuing a life that you actually love.



Maybe it's time to become your own fucking fairy godmother. I can help with that.

you don't need a hero or a savior, but you could probably use an ally.

Cindy W.

"Jen is an amazing and insightful coach with a perfect mix of empathy and motivation in her coaching. I experienced several transforming realizations while working with her and have made significant changes in my life as a result."

Tara M.

"When I started working with Jen, she guided me through the process of recognizing my patterns and helped me to make the connections that ultimately brought me to a much greater success level than I had ever anticipated."

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Portraits by Tess Cagle                                                  Nature photos by Sean Pavich